Well, I'm not the only one. Time and again the subject comes up. Do I belong? Does anyone care that I am here? Why should I care about these random strangers online and what they think of me? Regardless of RL background or where people live in the world- they feel the need to belong. In my own experience I have met some pretty awesome people that I would not have otherwise. The echoes of my own first days on SL come back time and again. I know what it's like to try to fit in, to belong. I try to make those new friendships whenever I can. It's difficult to not have cliques with a large group of people. You gravitate towards those that you connect with. I still struggle with a sense of self worth and a sense of belonging even with my long term friendships on the game. If you're feeling this way- know that you're not alone. Even the most bad ass, hard core, strong people I have met deal with this. Keep trying, make yourself available, continue to show up and people will get to know you. Invite them to be on your friends list. They might be having the same issue as you!
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